Vendor Red Flag Checklist
Check off any red flags you have observed while vetting a wedding vendor. Get an instant safety score to help you decide whether to book or walk away.
Communication
Takes days to reply during the inquiry phase. If they are slow before booking, expect worse after they have your deposit.
Insists on text or email only and dodges live conversations. Legitimate vendors are happy to get on a call.
Uses urgency tactics like "another couple is about to book your date" without giving you time to review the contract.
Deflects when you ask about backup plans, timelines, or what happens if something goes wrong.
Dismisses or attacks reviewers instead of explaining what happened and what changed.
Contract
Asks you to pay based on a verbal agreement or informal message thread. Always require a signed contract.
The contract does not specify what happens to your deposit or payments if either party cancels.
Contract does not itemize deliverables, hours of coverage, number of staff, or what is included versus extra.
No mention of a second shooter, substitute DJ, or what happens if the vendor has a personal emergency on your date.
Contract language protects the vendor even if they fail to show up or deliver the agreed services.
Financial
Asks for 100% payment before any services are rendered. Standard practice is a deposit (25-50%) with the balance due closer to the event.
Refuses credit card or bank transfer. Untraceable payment methods make disputes nearly impossible.
Travel fees, setup charges, overtime rates, or equipment costs appear after the initial quote but were never mentioned.
If a quote is 40-60% below comparable vendors, it may signal inexperience, bait-and-switch pricing, or a scam.
Reviews & Portfolio
Cannot provide references from past clients and has no reviews on Google, The Knot, or WeddingWire.
Reverse image search reveals photos that belong to other photographers or are from stock photo sites.
Cannot provide proof of liability insurance or a business license. Most venues require vendor insurance.
Followers are mostly bots, engagement is near zero, or the account was created very recently with a large follower count.
Frequently Asked Questions
How to Vet Wedding Vendors Before You Book
This free vendor red flag checklist covers 18 warning signs across communication patterns, contract terms, financial practices, and reviews. Each flag is weighted by severity so your safety score reflects the real risk level, not just a count of issues.
Use this tool alongside your vendor consultations and pair it with our wedding cost calculator to make sure pricing quotes align with market rates for your region.
Planning a destination wedding? Vendor vetting is even more important when you cannot visit in person. Check insurance, ask for video walkthroughs, and always use a traceable payment method.